Guised As Therapy

While I was first visiting Maddie 2 weeks ago, I learned she hasn’t walked any significant distance in her home in the previous 3-4 weeks. She eats, sleeps and socializes with family in her recliner. She is 83-years-old and obese. She has a pressure ulcer on her sacrum, for which she is receiving nursing care in the home. She is receiving antibiotics for a newly diagnosed urinary tract infection, which has been forcing her to urinate once every hour. She has a history of depression and anxiety, each of which has been controlled (historically) by her current medication regime (I am not convinced that these are any longer effective and have requested a psychiatric evaluation).

A once proud and socially active pillar of the community, Maddie doesn’t leave the home any longer, but she welcomes friends for a weekly game of pitch at her dining room table. To move to the table, she has (with significant physical assistance from her son) stood and turned to sit on her rollator, which he then pushes to the table. She has been moving the same way to the bathroom to void her bladder – more than 20 times daily.

Today, after 6 home care physical therapy visits, her son greeted me at the front door smiling:

“Mom is doing much better – thank you. She is getting up to go to the bathroom on her own – she didn’t even call me in the middle of the night last night.”

Considering her history, I might have considered her increased mobility a triumph. Instead, I still felt guilty.

.     .     .     .

Two days ago, on Wednesday, she was crying. I held her hand while she told me she was okay, but I fear that she was saying what she felt was required of her under the circumstances. She had lost control – I had taken it from her.

Earlier on Wednesday, she had walked to the bathroom. It took some encouragement, but after walking only 12-feet on Monday, she walked nearly 30-feet to the commode with her rollator. She was a bit tired and anxious as she tried to maneuver herself directly in front of the commode, but she had good control throughout. I praised and congratulated her for the achievement; her son did the same. She seemed not to care – I imagine that, in her mind, she was just happy to have stopped the task without appreciating what she had accomplished. “Thank God, it is over,” she must have thought.

She told us she was too tired to walk back to her recliner, so she was transferred back to her rollator and wheeled back to the living room, where she again transferred to the recliner. She politely agreed to participate in a few seated exercises to improve sitting balance, before trying to transfer to standing a few more times before the conclusion of my visit.

Maddie and I adjusted her recliner (actually, it is a powered lift chair) so the seat was positioned an advantageous 15 degrees from horizontal and, with contact guard, Maddie pushed off of her chair with her hands and raised herself – with her creaky knees – to a standing position. She stood at her rollator for 10 seconds before returning to the chair with good control. “I’m tired,” she said. “I can’t do anymore.”

“That’s not true,” I told her. “You are far stronger than you give yourself credit for. You didn’t think you would be able to walk to the bathroom either, but you proved to yourself that you could. You are so strong – you just don’t recognize it. Come on – one more – then I will get out of your hair for the day.”

She patted my hand that was resting on the arm of the chair as I squatted alongside her, “Oh, you aren’t getting in my hair, dear.”

“That is kind of you to say, but I suspect you may be playing coy. Come on, what do you say? One more, okay? I’ll even give you a bit of a boost if you need a little extra umph.”

She yielded, nodded her head, closed her eyes, and slowly sighed. She placed her hands on the arms of the chair (I placed my arm under hers), leaned forward and began to push herself to stand until, half-way up, she paused. “No, I can’t,” she said.

“Yes – Yes you can,” I said, resisting her descent back into her chair with my own arm. “Don’t you dare give up on yourself, you deserve better. Come on. Keep pushing.”

She began crying, but she was almost there – “Keep going, Maddie. You can do this!”

And she did it. I only asked her to stand for 3 seconds before sitting back in her chair, where she began sobbing in earnest. I knelt beside her chair and handed her a tissue. After she wiped her tears, she placed her hand on her lap, I placed mine gently upon hers. “I’m sorry,” I said, “In the moment, I couldn’t let you give up on yourself like that. I know what you are capable of and you need to see and appreciate it. You can do so much more than you give yourself credit for.”

“I suppose you’re right,” she said, as she took a deep breath and exhaled, allowing her shoulders to ease to a more relaxed state.

.     .     .     .

She says she wants to walk to the table and sit in a chair to play cards with her friends. She says she wants to compose music at her piano again. She says she doesn’t want to rely on her son to help her pull her pants on and off. She says she wants to have some of her dignity back, but when she is faced with the challenge of achieving those goals, something gets in the way.

Perhaps she has never felt fatigue at this level before and it is overwhelming. Perhaps she is experiencing an acute exacerbation of her anxiety or depression. Perhaps her son is right: maybe she is just lazy.

All I know is that for one small moment of time, her goal was to sit down and I forced her to stand. I know that I (in part) made her feel something that brought her to tears. I know that life – with its obesity, social separation and isolation, psychological challenges, and physical deconditioning – has stripped so much from her over the last year, and that I (if even for a brief moment) stole something else from her as well. You see, up until that moment, for better or worse, she has been allowed to make her own choices. I stole from her one of the last few things that she could call her own – her autonomy.

Today she is moving much better than she was a week ago and I am able to document significant positive changes in her presentation. The patient’s family is thrilled with her progress; they will likely complete my discharge evaluation with a high patient satisfaction score, my boss will praise me again at my next annual review, and my director will continue to think that I provide some the highest quality care that the agency has to offer.

On Monday, I would have told you that I practice patient-centered care*. I am not sure how I would categorize my care if you asked me today, but I certainly wouldn’t call it ‘patient-centered’.

 

*link to Critical Physiotherapy Network blog posting titled, Why Physiotherapy Is Not Patient Centred by @DaveNicholls3. I recommend following CPN on twitter, if you are not already

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8 thoughts on “Guised As Therapy

  1. Hi Keith. Thank you for this beautiful narrative. What an amazing response to my post late last week. It reminded me so much of Havi Carel’s writing. Very moving.
    I’ve had most of my clinical experience working with people with chronic breathing problems and I can empathise with the need to force people to do things they don’t want to do. You only have to perform nasal suction on an elderly terminally ill patient to stop them choking to know that health care practice sometimes involves doing things that we’d rather not do. But these actions can be motivated by love too. I don’t want my patients to suffer, and I don’t want a family’s last memory of their mother or father to be the sound of them struggling for air if I can help it.
    We often have to do things that we believe will help people (note I didn’t say we ‘know’ will help). One important question, I suppose, is what motivates that action? Evidence, caring, empathy, compassion, or the pressure to get through a massive caseload?
    I think we need a conversation within physical therapy about what patient-centred care means for us, and this question centres, for me at least, around the power inherent in our license to practice. I personally believe that there are very few times when people actually want, or have to be, totally passive (critical care might be one example). For the rest of the time we want to be part of the decision-making. Hence the question about where the power lies.
    Should Maddie have been given the right of refusal, or should you have been able to draw on all of your skills to figuratively and physically ‘push’ her to go beyond her limits? These are questions worthy of serious discussion, to which there are no simple answers. Your story helps because it opens a space for us to talk about it, which may be a very important patient-centred act in itself.
    Cheers
    Dave

    • Thank you, kindly, for your reply, Dave.

      There was some dialogue yesterday on Twitter following my posting that (initially) where folks thought I may have been (needlessly) too hard on myself and that I thought I done something wrong – which was not the case. The thing is, I don’t know. I can’t know.

      Her long-term goals, despite many detailed conversations, do not yet align with the interventions that she will necessarily need to complete to achieve them. She is somewhere between pre-contemplation and contemplation. I appreciate this and try my best to use motivational interviewing and honest dialogue to elicit change talk, but it is challenging.

      Meanwhile, she wants to remain in her home, but her family is at their breaking point and are secretly planning on transitioning her to a long-term care facility – no more card games and visits from friends leading to greater isolation.

      I am not expecting a quick change in her psych profile in the next few weeks, but she needs to take pressure off her wound and increase her independence yesterday, even if she isn’t yet motivated to move tomorrow. This places me in the position of the passionate, yet empathetic, coercer. At this time, she is (seemingly) incapable of seeing the forest for the trees. Even so, I appreciate that while her body may be getting stronger, the psychological impact of my care will likely have unforeseen consequences for her as a person – and, after all, we treat whos not whats.

      This is why it is so important to establish a rapport with a patient. To stress the importance of the relationship, @Jerry_DurhamPT said on twitter yesterday that he prefers to use the term “relationship-centered” care, instead of “patient-centered”. I found it to be an interesting take, and the language certainly seems more representative of what I strive for in the clinical encounter.

      Either way – I appreciate how your own posting served as a starting point for a healthy professional dialogue.

  2. Thank you for this, Keith.

    As more time passes, I find this to be the most interesting part of medicine – the patient encounter.

    Again, wonderful.

  3. Keith, as always this is eloquently written illustrating concepts and issues likely to slip past the most observant. I appreciate your questions.

    Unfortunately, I must admit this narrative, these questions, and this very issue resonants with my day to day patient care. Within the ICU, I’m charged, I’m known for, hell I pride myself, on facilitating mobility early and often. Yet, there are many times, countless times really, when the patient does not want to, does not understand why, and can’t connect the task with their own desires and goals (even short term). And, far too often that they are likely experience unpleasant sensations and emotions. I do what I can to mitigate, educate, and re-assure. But, I’ve often wondered what the long term psychological effects of such an experience, combined with the often traumatic general ICU issues, are. Obviously, I’m sure it’s varied.

    In any case, I have little to add other than my own pondering, but do appreciate your insights. Never stop writing.

    • Thanks for taking the time to share your own reflections, Kyle. Your examples, with Dave’s before, should certainly help us keep perspective when we decide which words we use to describe how each of us cares and serves for our patients.

  4. I was led to this post via the critical physiotherapy network. I know I have felt like this before too. Thank you for such as honest reflection.

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